Who Owns Your Ideas?

One of the lists I read has had a huge debate about how do you deal with individuals who steal your work. I think it is fitting to address this in a leadership context. Leaders should have a set of principles for how they deal with others people's stuff.. and how they deal with others who take their stuff. There are typically two schools.. The Disney School: procecute anyone that infringes on your stuff; and the Red Hat Rule: The Open Source Movement. Much of life is about balance. Here are some principles I live by that help me balance the two:

Principle 1 - People who steal are lazy.. They are not your competition.. they will not take your market share.. If they steal from you, their clients will soon learn they steal from them as well.

Principle 2 - Even good people do things that are wrong. They need to know the boundaries. They need to be warned. It is best done up front, before they copy or use your work.

Principle 3- People want me for what I can do for them. Not just the words I write, but the experience and knowledge behind them. You can't steal me from me..

Principle 4 - People deserve credit for their contributions. Leaders never use someone's work with out attributing. Scholars need to know what your writing is built on.. who came before you.

Principle 5 - If you give something away... it will multiply and be returned to you... Every time I have given a colleague something, I have been rewarded..

Principle 6 - New ideas are built on other ideas. Be careful what you claim as your own.. you may learn someone else owns part of it. Refer to Principle 3!

Principle 7 - Over the long term, stealing never pays off! Over the long term, sharing always does.

I would be interested in your thoughts. Would you omit any of these principles? Would you add any new ones? Or, maybe you just want to improve one of these principles....

We are all Hokies today!

"We are strong, and brave, and innocent, and unafraid... we are better than we think and not quite what we want to be... we are alive to the imagination of the possibilities.. we will continue to invent the future, through our blood and tears, through all our sadness.. we are the hokies, we will prevail, we will prevail, we prevail, we are Virginia Tech!"

-- Nikki Giovanni, University Distinguished Professor, poet, activist

10 hopes from Virginia Tech

Here are my 10 hopes from the Virginia Tech tragedy.

1. The families of the victims will find peace in the memory of their loved ones.
   
2. The people of Blacksburg and Virginia Tech will become closer to one another.
   
3. We will gain insight into the needs and treatment of the mentally ill college student.
4. New practices will emerge to improve the safety of college students.
5. We will build stronger bonds between college students and their parents.
6. We will all be more responsive to the lonely, the outcast, the excluded.
7. Technologies and practices will emerge that improve our ability to communicate quickly with large groups of people.
   
8. Funding for security, student well being, and support services will grow.
9. Through new education efforts, mentally ill individuals will be more likely to seek help.
   
10. This will be the last college campus tragedy.

Prisoners of our Stories

This is a previous post to my old blog.. but it may be helpful now during the crisis at Virginia Tech. It is about moving toward hopefulness... despite the pain and sadness of a lost. I thought I would repost it today... especially after listening to the memorial service at VT yesterday...

Prisoners of Our Stories

"We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms -- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way." - Victor Frankl

I have been rereading some of my books on Viktor Frankl lately. His life and work are remarkable and I often find it is helpful to reach out to his writings from time to time. This week I have been reading one of his student's books, Prisoners of Our Thoughts by Alex Pattakos. Pattakos does a wonderful job of translating Frankl's work into actions for living. One of the best exercises in the book relates to the story you tell yourself when something bad happens. Quick, think of a situation at work or in your personal life that is or was stressful or challenging. Write down ten positive things that could result or did result from the situation. For me, it went something like this:

We couldn't have children through birth
- We have each other
- We have our health
- There are other ways to have children
- There are children born who need parents
- and on and on...

The long-term result was a son named Nikolas who joined our family in 1999! But the intitial impact of this exercise was one of deep optimisim instead of dispair. One of hope and possibilities instead of sadness. Oh, we were sad about the situation, but we also were hopeful about the goal. The implication for you in your leadership journey is to be prepared to be hopeful regardless of the route you take on this journey.

Virginia Tech

Vincent Covello, an international expert on crisis communication, teaches an important lesson on leading when a crisis occurs. He calls the principle CCO. Compassion, Commitment, and Optimism!

COMPASSION:

"We are sad today, and we will be sad for quite a while. We are not moving on. We are embracing our mourning. We are Virginia Tech."

-- Nikki Giovanni, University Distinguished Professor, poet, activist

COMMITMENT:

"I told them that my administration would do everything possible to assist with the investigation and that I pledged that we would stand ready to help local law enforcement and the local community in any way we can during this time of sorrow."

“As such times as this we look for sources of strength to sustain us, and in this moment of loss, you are finding these sources all around you. These sources of strength are in this community, this college community… you came together… even as these events were unfolding, you found yourself.”

-- President George Bush

"Commonwealth has a meaning, the meaning is… what we have… the god given and man made resources are held in common… the world was watching you yesterday, in the darkest moment in the history of this university, the world saw you and saw you respond in a way that built community... I pledge to do all I can… President Singer, members of the community and my team as well , to be with you, to be alongside you in difficult times… you have a remarkable community, look around you.. this is a remarkable place, do not let go of that sense of community which is so powerful in this room.”

-- Virginia Gov. Tim Kaine


OPTIMISM:

"We are strong, and brave, and innocent, and unafraid... we are better than we think and not quite what we want to be... we are alive to the imagination of the possibilities.. we will continue to invent the future, through our blood and tears, through all our sadness.. we are the hokies, we will prevail, we will prevail, we prevail, we are Virginia Tech!"

-- Nikki Giovanni, University Distinguished Professor, poet, activist

Good Night VT.. we are all Hokies tonight!

Eight Positives that emerged from Imus

Now that the dust has settled on the Imus mess. I think it might be safe to actually try a positive post.. Here are the eight positives that came out of the situation:

1. We would have never gotten to know these wonderful, distinguished, and intelligent young women!
2. All of us, especially the parents, are going to be more observant of what young minds hear and see.
3. Imus had already been evolving... from a drug shock jock to a pretty good interviewer of who's who.. The past week he evolved even more.. all of us can be good people...
4. Once again, we learned who we can trust, who will grandstand, who really matters.
5. Just like our momma taught us, we were reminded that it is not just what you do, but who your associate with.
6. Many of us had conversations in the office and learned from each other. New knowledge was gained, everyone had a chance to learn about themselves.
7. Despite the crisis, people turned out to donate to Imus sponsored charities last week.
8. No one ended up on higher ground, except those wonderful young women.. everyone else (on both sides of the issue) got a wake up call that we are all guilty of not doing enough.
   

Max De Pree on Teams

Max DePree lists 8 essential rights that all team members should have a right to expect in his book Leadership is an Art. While maybe not an exhaustive list and you could argue some are close to be redundant, it is a pretty good list to review when leading a new team:

1. The Right to be Needed (Can I contribute?)
2. The Right to be Involved (What can I own?)
3. The Right to a Covenantal Relationships (Will our relationship be meaningful?)
4. The Right to Understand (What is the mission? our strategy?)
5. The Right to Affect One's Own Destiny (Can I influence my own destiny?)
6. The Right to be Accountable (Will I be able to see how I contribute?)
7. The Right to Appeal (Can I protect my rights?)
8. The Right to Make a Commitment (Will they let me do my best?)

Leadership is an Art is a good read. I recommend it as a self-study tool in exploring your own leadership journey.

Jim Casey on Management

"There was a time when I thought I had to do everything myself. When I found that impossible, I learned that astonishing results could be accomplished if a group of people agreed on what our objectives should be and then set out to reach them....

...I have felt embarrassed at times when publicly given credit for achievements that should have been credited to others. Perhaps such erroneous impressions were due to a misconception of management as practiced by our company. Some people may regard all management as pyramided, mechanical, or autocratic. No such terms should apply to us. Management in our company is the work of many people through objective cooperation.

As it was from the beginning, the prime interest of our management should be helping people help themselves. We know they will respond."

Jim Casey - CEO of UPS, 1962

Integrity

Every bit of my past 25 years of studying Leadership tells me the foundations of everything can be linked back to Integrity! There are many different styles of leading because we are all a little different and different situations require different leadership skills. But I can think of not one situation when Integrity is not critical. Max DePree, author of "Leadership is an Art," writes "Integrity is one of the preserving principles of the free-market system... it is not a quality that changes to keep those in positions of leadership comfortable. Our media is replete with stories of the consequences of leaders who have failed to hold themselves accountable."

So.. I sit back and watch the media and wonder.. why don't these leaders get it. Just pick up the paper.. any paper, and you will find stories of leadership failure. In many of them, if not all, there is a sense that Integrity was not a high priority. Take the Duke lacrosse case.. I am sure you can see many examples of failure where integrity was not important. We must do better.. integrity should be the first principle of every leader.

Mitch

Twitter - Just a start

I have been playing with twitter now for a couple of weeks. Although it is still in the toddler stage (I believe there will be a host of enhancements), it has the potential to change how we network with existing teams. I encourage you to explore it. Here are my first observations.. and remember I am a newbee..

- Instead of seeing it as a tool for meeting new friends.. expanding my network, I now see it more as a tool for enriching existing relationships. For example, in June I will go to a huge conference.. There will be 1000s.. of people there, many sessions.. Twitter will help me keep in touch with all my friends and yet, allow me to be where I want to be when I want to be there.

- There is a certain level of vanity in telling other people what your doing. It seems there are way more productive uses of this technology. Areas like group learning, shared understandings of a speaker, and other knowledge areas come to mind. With so many people online.. it will be interesting to see if norms evolve... if group theory also applies..

- I have a small number of friends so far.. I am wondering what happens when your numbers increase. The structure of other ways I work seems to drive me to compartmentalize my friends into working groups. To share revelant information with certain groups so I do not overwhelme others with content. Still wondering about this one..

Well.. I invite you to join me on Twitter. Join and then make me your friend.. see you there...